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I’m Childless—And Unashamed 

17/11/202317/11/2023 Steph Penny Leave a comment Survivng Childlessness

There seems to be a lot of social media shaming childless people at present.  They mock us for ageing alone.  They point out how selfish we are.  They bemoan the future of the Church, saying its decline is imminent without procreating couples—as though the Church were on the fragile precipice of implosion and childless people […]

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A Vocation of Existing 

04/08/202304/08/2023 Steph Penny 3 Comments Surviving Chronic Illness

I had big dreams as a kid. I loved singing, acting and being on the stage. I wanted to do something musical and creative with my life.  Then, as a teenager, I encountered God in a radical way. I had always known God, but he took my life and rearranged it, in the way a […]

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Being Single is Now OK, Apparently

26/05/202326/05/2023 Steph Penny Leave a comment Surviving Singledom

‘Single people must be valued at the heart of our society,’ declares a recent article in The Guardian*, boldly restating what many single people have been saying for years. The article, popularised on social media in recent weeks, highlights a report on a 2-year commission into relationships and family in the Church of England, ordered by […]

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I Screwed Up Mother’s Day

12/05/202312/05/2023 Steph Penny 4 Comments Survivng Childlessness

Whoops. I’ve screwed this up, haven’t I? Yup. Must have missed the memo. Or had a momentary lapse in concentration.  Apparently, I am rostered on to serve at church this Mother’s Day.  OK, I know it doesn’t sound like the crime of the century. Or any kind of crime at all. The fact remains I […]

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A Wobbly Day 

05/05/202305/05/2023 Steph Penny Leave a comment Survivng Childlessness

It wasn’t my church’s fault. They were doing a beautiful thing. A good thing. It’s not their fault I got sideswiped.  The last worship song had ended and the congregation was seated. Then came the announcement from the stage:  ‘Today we’re having a baby dedication.’  Oh crap. I felt the first hint of a wobble.  […]

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Multiplication Challenges—Or Are They? 

21/04/202321/04/2023 Steph Penny Leave a comment Survivng Childlessness

‘How do you deal with being childless at church?’ a friend recently asked me. ‘Do people put pressure on you to “Be fruitful and multiply”?’  I nodded emphatically. ‘You betcha. Happens all the time.’  Her eyes widened. ‘How do you deal with that?’  It’s a good question, isn’t it? What is the best way to […]

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Singledom in the Church 

24/03/202324/03/2023 Steph Penny Leave a comment Surviving Singledom

‘So much of the church,’ said Desiree, ‘is about marriage.’  Desiree was giving a talk on singledom at C3 Ballina*, and I love that the first thing she does is acknowledge how much of church life is focused on and revolves around couples. (Disclaimer: Desiree also references my book, Surviving Singledom, so I am somewhat biased […]

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Writing Tribe

27/01/202327/01/2023 Steph Penny Leave a comment General writing

I love my tribe of writers. We meet once every couple of months with local fellow writers, and we have an international conference every year. We are Christians of all ages, all personality types, and all writing genres.  I suppose some would consider this group an extra commitment, like a chore. But for me, it’s […]

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How ‘Two Sisters and a Brain Tumour’ Helped Me

13/01/202313/01/2023 Steph Penny Leave a comment Book reviews

I recently read Two Sisters and a Brain Tumour, a memoir by author friend Emily J. Maurits. Even though it was about a brain tumour, I enjoyed reading it—probably because it was about so much more than that.  The author takes us on a journey through her relationship with her sister, with all the tension and […]

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Single and Sick

18/11/202218/11/2022 Steph Penny Leave a comment Surviving Chronic Illness, Surviving Singledom

I recently took my husband to hospital for a day procedure. Afterwards, when we got back home and were recovering, he looked at me and said, ‘I can’t imagine how I would do this hospital stuff if I was still single!’  ‘I can’t imagine how I would do this hospital stuff if I was still […]

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